Sunday, August 29, 2010

Italian Feast for Sep 12th Eat, Pray, Love review



So we are set for our upcoming review of Eat, Pray, Love on Sep. 12th
On the menu for the meeting will be an Italian Feast
I will have a baguette with sun dried tomato
pesto. P and Nicole will be making Crespelles (Italian cheese filled Crepes in a savory cream sauce)
Feel free to bring whatever you like, maybe someone can bring salad??
we have special readers gift bags to be given away also.
Happy Reading !
Kyle

Update: Niki is bringing Gelato, Laura is bringing a bottle of wine other alcohol is highly encouraged! :) Rachel has an antipasto platter Alex is bringing salad.
see you tonight (sep. 12) 6pm call if you need directions Kyle 228-2848

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Discussion Questions for "Eat Pray Love"

Hey guys, I figured we should post the discussion questions for Eat Pray Love right away, so that it's not done so late, because I am a procrastinator. 

Discussion Questions:

  1. Gilbert writes that “the appreciation of pleasure can be the anchor of humanity,” making the argument that America is “an entertainment-seeking nation, not necessarily a pleasure-seeking one.” Is this a fair assessment?
  2. After imagining a petition to God for divorce, an exhausted Gilbert answers her phone to news that her husband has finally signed. During a moment of quietude before a Roman fountain, she opens her Louise Glück collection to a verse about a fountain, one reminiscent of the Balinese medicine man’s drawing. After struggling to master a 182-verse daily prayer, she succeeds by focusing on her nephew, who suddenly is free from nightmares. Do these incidents of fortuitous timing signal fate? Cosmic unity? Coincidence?
  3. Gilbert hashes out internal debates in a notebook, a place where she can argue with her inner demons and remind herself about the constancy of self-love. When an inner monologue becomes a literal conversation between a divided self, is this a sign of last resort or of self-reliance?
  4. When Gilbert finally returns to Bali and seeks out the medicine man who foretold her return to study with him, he doesn’t recognize her. Despite her despair, she persists in her attempts to spark his memory, eventually succeeding. How much of the success of Gilbert’s journey do you attribute to persistence?
  5. Prayer and meditation are both things that can be learned and, importantly, improved. In India, Gilbert learns a stoic, ascetic meditation technique. In Bali, she learns an approach based on smiling. Do you think the two can be synergistic? Or is Ketut Liyer right when he describes them as “same-same”?
  6. Gender roles come up repeatedly in Eat, Pray, Love, be it macho Italian men eating cream puffs after a home team’s soccer loss, or a young Indian’s disdain for the marriage she will be expected to embark upon at age eighteen, or the Balinese healer’s sly approach to male impotence in a society where women are assumed responsible for their childlessness. How relevant is Gilbert’s gender?
  7. In what ways is spiritual success similar to other forms of success? How is it different? Can they be so fundamentally different that they’re not comparable?
  8. Do you think people are more open to new experiences when they travel? And why?
  9. Abstinence in Italy seems extreme, but necessary, for a woman who has repeatedly moved from one man’s arms to another’s. After all, it’s only after Gilbert has found herself that she can share herself fully in love. What does this say about her earlier relationships?
  10. Gilbert mentions her ease at making friends, regardless of where she is. At one point at the ashram, she realizes that she is too sociable and decides to embark on a period of silence, to become the Quiet Girl in the Back of the Temple. It is just after making this decision that she is assigned the role of ashram key hostess. What does this say about honing one’s nature rather than trying to escape it? Do you think perceived faults can be transformed into strengths rather than merely repressed?
  11. Sitting in an outdoor café in Rome, Gilbert’s friend declares that every city—and every person—has a word. Rome’s is “sex,” the Vatican’s “power”; Gilbert declares New York’s to be “achieve,” but only later stumbles upon her own word,antevasin, Sanskrit for “one who lives at the border.” What is your word? Is it possible to choose a word that retains its truth for a lifetime?

I think it's safe to say that we are all really excited to read this book!  I'm really looking forward to the discussion on September 12th and we will post "menu" items for that meeting later on.  In the meantime, happy reading!

OH PS: I was thinking that maybe sometime after we have all read the book, we could go see the movie together? Yes? No? Maybe?  Think about it.

-Nicole

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Next on the list...


Our Aug.8 discussion of Mansfield Park went very well.
We were happy to meet new member Alex!!!
Hope you enjoy the Bath and Body Works bags!!!!

our next meeting will be Sep. 12th 6pm at Kyles house and
the next book on the list is......Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert
This was a majority decision in lieu of our monthly vote!
Get cracking on EPL and Happy Reading!

Friday, August 6, 2010

On The Menu


So we are set for Sunday Aug. 8 @ 6pm at my place in Round Rock
on the menu will be
burgers and steaks, stuffed potatos---thanks Barnicole!
potatos of some sort from Pam

Yougurt pie concoction via Jordan
I will make pina colada martinis and provide chips
someone needs to pick up some hamburger buns so let me know who can do that
Happy Reading! Kyle

Monday, August 2, 2010

Book Club Questions for Mansfield Park

1. Mansfield Park was written after a silence of more than a decade. During this period, Austen moved several times, saw the deaths of her father and a potential suitor, and became the dependent old maid we find so often among her more pitiable characters. The Napoleonic Wars continued; England embarked on imperialistic adventures. Austen followed both with interest. Do you see evidence of these things in the novel?

2. At the heart of its plot, Mansfield Park has three sisters. What kind of family life do you imagine would account for Mrs. Bertram and Mrs. Norris and Mrs. Price? Find something good to say about Mrs. Norris.

3. Fanny is an Austen heroine who, throughout the course of the book, has nothing to learn. In this she stands in sharp contrast to Emma Woodhouse. Do you like Fanny as well as you like Emma? Less? More?

4. In one of the book's most famous scenes, Fanny sits wilted in the heat at the Rushworth's estate, while the other characters come and go around her. Discuss the ways this epitomizes the entire plot of the book.

5. The various roles played in The Lover's Vows often result in Austen characters who are, under the cover of the play, allowed to act in ways more congruent with their real natures than polite society permits. They perform themselves.

Meanwhile, William H. Galperin suggests that, when Fanny Price insists she cannot act, she is actually demonstrating her "inability to know one is always acting." Galperin speaks of "a fundamental duplicity in which one literally performs one's inability to act."

Think about this until your head explodes.

6. Plato has suggested that one cannot be both a good actor and a good citizen. What do you imagine he meant? Discuss the relevance of this to Mansfield Park.

7. In most books, the villains are identifiable through their mistreatment of the hero/heroine. In Mansfield Park, the Crawfords are among the tiny handful of people who see the value of Fanny Price. Are they ever unkind to her?

Why is Fanny so little moved by their interest and esteem?

In your opinion, is any of this esteem genuine?

8. The Crawfords are superficially the most attractive characters in the book. Where do their virtues become vices? Answer the same question with regard to Fanny and Edmund.

9. Kingsley Amis said, "Edmund and Fanny are both morally detestable and the endorsement of their feelings and behavior by the author . . . makes Mansfield Park an immoral book." Do you agree? Is there any difference in your mind between Austen herself and the book's narrator?

10. Earlier Austen novels suggest a society in positive transformation; earlier heroines struggle towards the possibility of improvement. In contrast, Mansfield Park is about a society threatened with transformation. Fanny Price makes no positive movement. She protects Mansfield Park by her resistance, by her refusal to change. In the end, the society represented by the estate of Mansfield Park will not and cannot be saved? What in that society seemed valuable to you? Is there anything to regret about its loss?